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Why Women Are Quitting Dating: The Harsh Reality of Situationships

How Casual Relationships Are Draining Women’s Mental Health and What Can Be Done About It

Alisa
4 min readFeb 7, 2025
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The Rise of Situationships: Why Women Are Opting Out

Dating has become a minefield, and for many women, the frustrations outweigh the rewards. From friends-with-benefits arrangements to undefined “situationships,” countless women are finding themselves emotionally drained, undervalued, and questioning their worth. As a result, a growing number are opting out of dating altogether.

The core issue? Many women are stuck in the cycle of casual relationships, hoping they’ll eventually blossom into something meaningful. But more often than not, they don’t.

What Exactly Is a Situationship?

A situationship is a relationship without clear boundaries or commitment. It’s neither casual nor serious but exists in a confusing middle ground where one or both parties may want more but are afraid to ask.

This lack of clarity can wreak havoc on a woman’s mental health, leading to:

  • Low self-esteem: Feeling like you’re “not enough” to be someone’s priority.

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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