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When Handjobs Get Tough: Secrets to Keeping It Fun and Easy

Alisa
5 min readFeb 5, 2025

Don’t Sweat It — Enjoy the Ride with These Game-Changing Tips

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It’s Okay to Struggle — There’s a Better Way

Let’s face it: handjobs can be exhausting. Whether it’s sore wrists, tired arms, or the sheer awkwardness of finding the right rhythm, the struggle is real. But here’s the thing — giving a handjob doesn’t have to feel like an Olympic event.

Instead of powering through and sacrificing the fun, you can embrace a few tweaks to make the experience enjoyable for both you and your partner. The goal is simple: focus on pleasure, not pressure.

So, if your arms are ready to wave the white flag, here are some easy-to-follow tips to keep things spicy while saving your energy.

1. Slow It Down: Enjoy the Moment

Your partner might be used to their go-to technique — fast, firm, and relentless. But trying to match their pace is like running a marathon on a treadmill set to turbo. Exhausting, right?

Here’s the hack: slow the heck down.

  • Why it works: A slower, gentler approach shifts the focus to the journey instead of rushing toward the finish line.
  • Pro Tip: Mix up your strokes. Light touches, teasing…
Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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