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Casual, Fun, and Drama-Free (If You Follow the Rules)
So, you’re thinking about a friends-with-benefits (FWB) relationship? No strings attached, no commitment, just fun. It sounds perfect, right? But without some ground rules, it can quickly go from exciting to messy.
Here are 10 easy rules to make sure your FWB stays stress-free and enjoyable for both of you.
1. Don’t Fall in Love
This is rule #1 for a reason. Feelings can ruin everything. Your FWB isn’t your soulmate — they’re your go-to for fun times.
If you catch yourself daydreaming about being more than just friends, stop right there. Splash some cold water on your face and remind yourself why you didn’t date them in the first place.
Tip: Keep your heart out of it, or it’s game over.
2. Keep Texts Short and Simple
No texting about your day, your boss, or your weekend plans. FWB texts are for one thing: setting up the next hookup.
Example: “Your place or mine?”
Anything more is a slippery slope into emotional territory.
