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Unlocking Her Deepest Desires: The 9 Things Women Secretly Wish During Sex

Alisa
7 min readFeb 8, 2025

Discover the Hidden Secrets to Enhance Your Intimacy and Build a Deeper Connection with Your Partner

Sexual intimacy is a journey that involves emotional connection, mutual respect, and, most importantly, understanding each other’s desires. While every woman is unique, there are universal things that many secretly wish their partners would do in bed. These acts can significantly improve the physical, emotional, and sexual connection between partners, making their experiences more satisfying. Below, we explore the nine things that women secretly wish men would do in bed, in ascending order of importance, with actionable steps and powerful punchlines to make each moment count.

1. Foreplay: The Foundation of Great Sex

“Foreplay is the bridge that connects hearts and bodies — it’s where the magic begins.”

Foreplay sets the foundation for great sex. Many women secretly wish their partners would spend more time on foreplay — long, passionate kisses, affectionate touches, and intimate exploration. Foreplay isn’t just about getting to the main event; it’s about building anticipation, connection, and emotional intimacy. Taking the time to enjoy each other’s bodies…

Alisa
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Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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