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The Most Ridiculous Sex Myths Women Want You to Stop Believing

Alisa
5 min readFeb 5, 2025

Unpacking the Myths, Misconceptions, and Mistruths About Women’s Sexuality

Sexual myths, no matter how absurd, have a way of embedding themselves into the collective consciousness. These myths are not only false but can also perpetuate harmful stereotypes, create misunderstandings in relationships, and hinder personal growth. Let’s tackle some of the most ridiculous sex myths from a female perspective and replace misinformation with clarity.

Myth 1: The Vagina Becomes Looser with Frequent Sex

Perhaps one of the most pervasive myths is the idea that a woman’s vagina becomes “loose” after having sex with multiple partners. This misconception is rooted in shame and ignorance rather than science.

The Truth:

  • The vagina is a highly elastic muscular organ. It stretches during intercourse or childbirth and returns to its natural state afterward.
  • Changes in vaginal elasticity are more commonly associated with childbirth or aging, not sexual activity.
  • This myth has often been used to shame women and control their sexual choices, fostering harmful stereotypes about their worth being tied to their sexual history.

The vagina is built for…

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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The first image is lmao, who’s foot there on the left 🤣

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As a man, I thank you for writing this Alisa. You would think with the advent of the internet, every person would be entirely aware of these and many other truths. It seems we as a society suffer from a serious lack of curiosity.

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I'm glad this covers all women.
Because my ex told me "it's not making love unless I climaxes.

It's 2025: pretending like there's only one class of woman is kind of silly.

I know you're not the low dopamine woman who connects with men only…

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