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Sex: The Pleasure We Crave but Rarely Talk About

Alisa
4 min readFeb 13, 2025

Why Settling for Mediocre Sex is Slowly Killing Your Soul

Let’s cut the crap — sex is not just a physical act; it’s a necessity.

Not in the “biological function” kind of way, but in the “this keeps me sane, happy, and fully alive” kind of way.

And yet, we live in a world where people are too ashamed to admit just how much they need it.

We pretend we’re fine going months — or even years — without it. We act like it’s some optional luxury rather than a fundamental human experience.

But let’s be real — when was the last time you had sex so good it left you dizzy, breathless, and completely wrecked in the best way possible?

If you have to think too hard about it, that’s a problem.

The Ridiculous Stigma Around Enjoying Sex

It’s funny how society consumes pornography like it’s a daily vitamin but clutches its pearls when someone openly admits they love to fuck.

Especially women.

A woman who enjoys sex?
A woman who prioritizes her pleasure?
A woman who isn’t ashamed of her desires?

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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