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Sex Positions Men Pretend to Enjoy (But Secretly Dread)

Alisa
6 min readFeb 15, 2025

The Positions He’s Enduring Just to Keep You Happy

Let’s be real — sex is supposed to be fun, exciting, and full of passion. But not every position feels as amazing as it looks in the movies. While men are often seen as always eager and ready for action, the truth is, some positions make them uncomfortable, awkward, or downright frustrated.

The catch? Most men won’t tell you.

They’d rather fake enjoyment than admit they’re struggling with balance, angles, or stamina. Some positions feel like an endurance test, while others create unexpected pressure or take away their control.

So, let’s break the silence. Here are six sex positions men secretly dislike — but hesitate to confess.

1. The Woman on Top

🔹 Why It Sounds Hot: Women take control, set the pace, and find their pleasure.
🔹 Why Some Men Hate It: Loss of control, stamina struggles, and awkward angles.

Many women love being on top — it gives them the freedom to control the rhythm, depth, and intensity. But while it’s a favorite for many, some men secretly dread this position.

Why? Because it takes control out of their hands.

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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