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Sagging or Perky? How I Learned to Love My Breasts and the Pleasure They Bring

Alisa
6 min readFeb 18, 2025

For as long as I can remember, I struggled with feeling self-conscious about my body, especially when it came to my breasts. The images of perky, flawless breasts I saw in the media made me think that my natural, sagging ones were less than perfect. It wasn’t until much later that I realized how misguided that idea was. Today, I’ve learned to not only accept my body but to embrace the unique beauty of my breasts — and the pleasure they bring.

This journey hasn’t been easy, but it’s been incredibly liberating. From self-doubt to self-love, here’s how I came to appreciate my body for what it is, sagging breasts and all, and how this acceptance opened up a whole new world of pleasure.

The Struggle: Growing Up With Insecurities

I was always comparing myself to others, never feeling “good enough.”

Growing up, I was bombarded by the image of the perfect woman — firm, high breasts that defied gravity. I spent years looking at my own chest in the mirror, wondering why mine didn’t look like that. My breasts were softer, a little lower, and — let’s be honest — far from “perky.” The truth was, I felt a deep sense of embarrassment. In a world that seemed to idolize youthful…

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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