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Relationship Behaviors You Should Never Tolerate: Protect Your Peace and Self-Worth

Alisa
7 min readFeb 9, 2025

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Love Yourself Enough to Set Boundaries That Strengthen, Not Break You

Relationships should be about growth, connection, and support. However, when toxic behaviors creep in, they can do more harm than good. The key to a healthy partnership lies in setting firm boundaries and recognizing when those lines are being crossed. Let’s dive into ten behaviors that should never be tolerated in any relationship, and why you should stand firm in protecting your peace and self-worth.

1. Emotional Manipulation: A Silent Destroyer of Trust

“Love shouldn’t feel like a mind game.”

Emotional manipulation is one of the most insidious forms of abuse. It starts small — maybe they make you feel guilty for having feelings or use your insecurities against you. Slowly, it chips away at your confidence and makes you question your reality. You’ll hear phrases like, “You’re overreacting,” or “It’s just a joke, relax.” But make no mistake, this behavior is designed to control, not to love.

When you tolerate emotional manipulation, you allow someone to dictate your emotions, and that’s dangerous. A healthy relationship involves both partners being open, honest, and…

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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