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Rediscovering Intimacy in Midlife: Why the Best is Yet to Come

Alisa
5 min readJan 28, 2025

Let go of shame and embrace the freedom to enjoy a fulfilling sex life in midlife.

As we journey through life, certain expectations about aging and intimacy begin to take root. Many believe that once we hit midlife, our sexual vitality begins to fade. However, for countless women (and men), midlife is not the twilight of sexual experiences — it’s the dawn of a richer, more fulfilling chapter.

Far from diminishing, sexual satisfaction often thrives during midlife. In fact, a growing number of studies and personal testimonies reveal that this stage of life is when many individuals truly come into their own, reclaiming and celebrating their sexuality with newfound confidence.

Dr. Susan Hardwick-Smith, in her book Sexually Woke, emphasizes that up to one in five women in midlife report feeling more sexually satisfied than ever before. These are not isolated anecdotes — they represent a shift in how we view intimacy, desire, and personal fulfillment as we age.

This isn’t just about sex — it’s about freedom, empowerment, and learning to live life unapologetically.

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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