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How I Took Control of My Desires and Started Demanding More
For years, I tolerated mediocre pleasure. Not because I didn’t want more, but because I didn’t know how to ask for it.
I thought sex was supposed to be exciting, breathtaking, a full-body experience that left me trembling and satisfied — but instead, it was a performance.
I moaned on cue.
I faked satisfaction.
I let men think they were doing something extraordinary — when in reality, they weren’t even scratching the surface of my desire.
And the worst part?
I wasn’t alone.
How many of us have spent years enduring sex instead of truly enjoying it? How many of us have silently hoped for better, only to accept whatever half-hearted effort was given to us?
The problem was never me. The problem was the men who thought effort wasn’t necessary.
Why Do So Many Men Fail at Pleasuring Women?
The answer is simple: they’ve never had to try.
Society has conditioned men to believe that their pleasure is the main event. Meanwhile, women are taught to be grateful for whatever scraps…
