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3 Things You Should Never Say to a Woman (Avoid These Like the Plague!)

Alisa
4 min readFeb 11, 2025
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đź’¬ Words Are Powerful
What you say can leave a lasting impression, shape relationships, and either uplift or hurt someone deeply. When it comes to women, some phrases should never leave your lips — not because of political correctness, but because they can undermine respect, create unnecessary tension, and perpetuate harmful stereotypes. Whether you’re at home, work, or just chatting with a friend, choosing the right words is essential for fostering meaningful, respectful connections.

Let’s dive into the three categories of things you should never, ever say to a woman. Trust me, your relationships will thank you.

1. Comments About Her Body

🔥 Why It Hurts: Women face relentless societal pressure to fit specific standards of beauty. Even well-meaning comments can come across as judgmental or intrusive.

  • “You’d look better if you lost some weight.”
    This phrase doesn’t just critique her appearance — it reduces her value to how she looks, disregarding her personality, intellect, and achievements. Nobody wants to feel like their worth is tied to a number on a scale.
  • “Are you really going to eat that?”
    Policing someone’s diet isn’t your job. Statements like these imply she can’t make her…

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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