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11 Myths About Sex in Old Age Debunked: What the Young Don’t Know and the Elderly Don’t Tell

Alisa
5 min readFeb 12, 2025

Think sex stops with age? Think again. It’s time to shatter the myths and reveal the truth behind love and intimacy in your golden years.

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Sex in old age often sits in a corner labeled “taboo,” but after speaking with older friends and family, I’ve uncovered some truths that will shake up your assumptions. Let’s tackle these myths and reveal the untold stories that prove sex isn’t just for the young — it’s for anyone who embraces it, regardless of age.

1. Myth: Sexual desire disappears with age

Truth: Horniness doesn’t retire.
A 65-year-old friend of mine shocked me when she said, “I feel like a tigress in bed, more now than ever before!” Age has no bearing on your desire for intimacy; if anything, the fire can burn brighter with the wisdom that comes with life’s experiences.

2. Myth: Sexual pleasure decreases with age

Truth: Quality over quantity.
A 58-year-old acquaintance explained, “It may not happen as often, but when it does, it’s like fireworks — unforgettable!” With age comes the freedom to prioritize pleasure and take your time enjoying it. Think of it as savoring fine wine — more depth, more…

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Alisa
Alisa

Written by Alisa

Hi, I’m Alisa. I write about love, dating, sex, and relationships—sharing stories, insights, and advice to help navigate the complexities of human connection.

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